Monday, February 14, 2011

Queen of the Zombies

MMmmmmmm= I wonder?
Here's a clip from one of the most amazing shows ever put on air- Joan of Arcadia. 

If you have not met, Joan is a modern day Joan of Arc high school student who receives assignments from God.  Here she is singing a solo in the school play about Zombie love and war:



I = Look inside.
 What if the answer to my own question is "No?"  What if I'm not strong enough to make it through? Can transformation kill me?



It's Valentine's day:  My mom's heart is broken and I was so caught up in myself I totally blew her off when we saw her for my son's bday dinner yesterday. Now I haven't been able to connect.  I feel uncertain.

My dad is gone by choice and I thought I'd always be his valentine. Now the thought is dangerous. I feel confused. 

i know at one time i mattered and that i am now discarded.  I choose not to get caught up in that.  I choose to be myself.  I feel sortof powerful.
Welcome to winter.  Welcome to Zombieland- where an ugly life is the first step after death.

The death of my past concerns are the death of a belief that I am nothing. Death includes killing a need to perform on demand for someone else's pleasure. Death reveals I am no longer invincibally strong outside. 

I see a strong core and soft exterior emerging. This is my harvest! 
Last week, many dreams came true.  I was able to spend a full week meeting and interracting with Gay and Kathlyn Hendricks.  They are even more amazing in person than their words are in print!

I met the MOST amazing group of people I have ever seen in real life!  There was so much energy, dedication, and inspiration! If any of you who met me in Ventura see this- I'd love to stay in touch.  Please, drop a line to aurabernialis@gmail.com.

I also got to try surfing.  That day was GLORIOUS!  The surfshop owner found a wetsuit to match my hair.  There was a seal that came and played the morning with me.  I wasn't quite strong enough to get on my feet, but I can ride on one knee and one foot!  The afternoon brought a bike-ride with a bike that matched my hair and a pod of dolphins or little black whales to keep me company.

I even made new derby friends and got to spend a workout with them OUTSIDE!!!! 

So, Cinderella, what's the problem?  I'm still healing my legs.  I adored every moment of freedom where I could gear up and head along the beach on a paved- mostly- path, listening to my tunes and enjoying the view of sun and surf.  I could believe for an hour at a time that I was strong, capable, and free.  I was excited to return and workout with my rollerderby team for real.

 Then, I found myself barely able to walk.  I also discovered a deeper fear and more intense definition of pain than I ever want to relive with this &*&%^%$$#@@@ condition of my nervous system.

I could have made some of the best friends of my life, but I left.

I am so ashamed:  I gave up.  I came home early.  I spent the next three days staring in space seemingly unconscious for hours at a time.

I am so obsessed with this Joan video- gorgeous song, disgusting make-up.  Powerful message of love, set within a war.  Moon- shadow.  Noon- night.  Real life queen of the dead.  SO VIVID! 

Willing:  What's a brighter focus?
Oy.  As Joan sings:  "Ashes to ashes, dust to dust- when you see we're made of the same stuff? We are not flesh we are not blood. We are Love. We are Love.  Won't you share your light?"

I want to say, "NO."  The light is too bright.  It hurts my eyes!  It hurts my legs!  IT HURTS EVERYWHERE! 

No one said it would be easy to be a zombie.

The one thing I know I am willing to commit to is allowing transfomation to be easy.  This theme has been creeping up in many ways over the past few weeks.  I think it is getting brighter.  If the message is brighter, maybe the commitment and manifestation can be too....

I commit to relaxing in vulnerable ease as I breathe in the love, support and peace pervading my life.

Whew. 



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